NPR were playing the Fray's -How to Save a Life in a podcast review!- Love that song. Got back home to find the Mrs. playing Ramadasa Keerthanas. Haven't heard them too many times, but just enough to find them magical. Instinctively I find them magical...
But this little experience had me thinking me about a broader and more significant point than my new found versatility in musical taste.
So let me endeavor to get to that -
Sowmya had this introduction to Nagumomo
Most of it is in Tamil, but she makes a point about a key traditional 'ceremony' that is losing place in modern Tamil or more precisely Tam Brahm weddings - The Nalangu. For the uninitiated - The Nalangu is an informal event that follows a day of hectic proceedings. The bride and the groom settle down to play a few games (get your mind out of the gutter before you read further :) with the families on either side playing audience/referees and the occasional pain in the ass (I mean that in a nice way). Most weddings are now doing away with these events to save time or money or both. I find that a pity.
But...
The tricky part in prose is to connect an/set of observation(s) to a point. I've gotta admit I don't have a smart way to introduce the subject of Identity at this point in the post, so I'll just say this :
Sowmya's near lament had me thinking about the Indian Identity in general.
I personally believe that our identity should represent our antiquity while allowing for our status quo. In other words what makes us unique is our cultural evolution over 5000 years or more and we need to be cognizant of that, in fact ensure that we are identified through that social and cultural evolution.
However, the ground reality is that as our economy becomes more conducive for upward social mobility, we find ourselves getting more alienated from our bearings.
Before you sigh and dismiss this as a rant of a newly born traditionalist, let me state that I ain't one and this isn't a call or time to turn outright traditional either.
The fundamental problem that we have is we look at choices as black or white. We are not good with nuance as being nuanced involves more hard work often at the risk of no material benefit.
So, Let me explain my preferred choice of identity :
A good lot of us in the current generation are in a nice place, we can walk out of a Metallica concert on one day right into Marghazi mahautsavam or a Ustad Zakir Hussain concert on another.
In my opinion this amazing ability that the current times have bestowed on us should forge our identity. That is while we retain an Indian core that holds our value systems, our traditions and culture - we also soak in the variations and appreciate what the rest of the world has to offer.
Unfortunately, at this point in time we are polarized on either side depending on which end of the economic spectrum we lie.
I'm convinced that either ends are not the right place to be.
But in the interest of closure, I let myself play the devil's advocate. So I asked myself as to why we need to base our identity on our past, why not just flow with the current tide? In other words, why the effort to prevent an extinction of a culture? Why not let creative destruction or a survival of the fittest take it's course ?
And the response I came up with is Novelty. I need the Novelty that my heritage has to offer that few cultures around the world compare to.
I need the benefit of the lessons learnt from 5000 years or more
But most importantly I need the Novelty that would ensure that I am not just another Tom, Dick or Harry with a brown skin. Hence the nuance!
But this little experience had me thinking me about a broader and more significant point than my new found versatility in musical taste.
So let me endeavor to get to that -
Sowmya had this introduction to Nagumomo
Most of it is in Tamil, but she makes a point about a key traditional 'ceremony' that is losing place in modern Tamil or more precisely Tam Brahm weddings - The Nalangu. For the uninitiated - The Nalangu is an informal event that follows a day of hectic proceedings. The bride and the groom settle down to play a few games (get your mind out of the gutter before you read further :) with the families on either side playing audience/referees and the occasional pain in the ass (I mean that in a nice way). Most weddings are now doing away with these events to save time or money or both. I find that a pity.
But...
The tricky part in prose is to connect an/set of observation(s) to a point. I've gotta admit I don't have a smart way to introduce the subject of Identity at this point in the post, so I'll just say this :
Sowmya's near lament had me thinking about the Indian Identity in general.
I personally believe that our identity should represent our antiquity while allowing for our status quo. In other words what makes us unique is our cultural evolution over 5000 years or more and we need to be cognizant of that, in fact ensure that we are identified through that social and cultural evolution.
However, the ground reality is that as our economy becomes more conducive for upward social mobility, we find ourselves getting more alienated from our bearings.
- We talk Yank, the queen's english but refuse to learn a new Indian language in an Indian state
- We shed our traditions and celebrate advertised 'days' from the trite Mother's day to the imaginative National Orgasm Day (no kidding.., look it up on Google)
- We drink from the same kool aid on values, priorities and mannerisms while refusing to reference the treasure trove of information and perspective that our history begets us
- In short as time passes, slowly but surely we're turning ourselves into Americans and Englishmen in India
Before you sigh and dismiss this as a rant of a newly born traditionalist, let me state that I ain't one and this isn't a call or time to turn outright traditional either.
The fundamental problem that we have is we look at choices as black or white. We are not good with nuance as being nuanced involves more hard work often at the risk of no material benefit.
So, Let me explain my preferred choice of identity :
A good lot of us in the current generation are in a nice place, we can walk out of a Metallica concert on one day right into Marghazi mahautsavam or a Ustad Zakir Hussain concert on another.
In my opinion this amazing ability that the current times have bestowed on us should forge our identity. That is while we retain an Indian core that holds our value systems, our traditions and culture - we also soak in the variations and appreciate what the rest of the world has to offer.
Unfortunately, at this point in time we are polarized on either side depending on which end of the economic spectrum we lie.
I'm convinced that either ends are not the right place to be.
But in the interest of closure, I let myself play the devil's advocate. So I asked myself as to why we need to base our identity on our past, why not just flow with the current tide? In other words, why the effort to prevent an extinction of a culture? Why not let creative destruction or a survival of the fittest take it's course ?
And the response I came up with is Novelty. I need the Novelty that my heritage has to offer that few cultures around the world compare to.
I need the benefit of the lessons learnt from 5000 years or more
But most importantly I need the Novelty that would ensure that I am not just another Tom, Dick or Harry with a brown skin. Hence the nuance!